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Vaughn Conica
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18 years
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“Death is not the greatest loss in life. The greatest loss is what dies inside us while we live.”


This memorial website was created to remember our dearest

Vaughn Elliot Conica

 

 October 5, 1988 - March 12, 2007.

 

"Letting Go"

 

Letting go does not mean you stop caring;

It means I can't do it for someone else.

 

Letting go is not to cut myself off;

It is the realization I can't control another.

 

Letting go is not to enable;

But to allow learning from natural consequnces.

 

Letting go is to admit powerlessness;

which means the outcome is not in my hands.

 

Letting go is not trying to change or blame another;

It is to make the most out of myself.

 

Letting go is not to care for; but care about.

Letting go is not to fix; but to be supportive.

 

It is not to judge but to allow another to be a human being.

Letting go is not to be in the middle of arranging th outcome;

but to allow others to affect thier own destinies.

 

Letting go is not to be protective;

Its to allow another to face reality.

 

Letting go is not to deny; but to accept.

Letting go is not to nag, scold, or argue;

But instead to search out my own shortcomings and correct them.

 

Letting go is not to adjust everything to my own desires;

But to take each day as it comes and cherish myself in it.

 

Letting go is not to criticize or regulate anybody;

But try to become what I dream I can be.

 

Letting go is not to regret the past;

But to grow and live for the future.

 

Letting go is to fear less, and live more.

 

Written by Vaughn Conica

 


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erikah marie conica

If tears could build a stairway and memories a lane. we'd walk right up to heaven to bring you home again. No farewell words were spoken, no time to say good-bye . You were gone before we knew it,and only god knows why. Our hearts still ache in sadness and secret tears still flow. What it meant to lose you no one will ever know.

Don't Cry

Dont Cry

Don't judge me for how I left this world;
remember the love that I gave.
A lot of grief will follow me,
for the decision that I have made.

Changes appear in everyone's life,
some good, and some bad.
The one that I chose for myself
made everyone very sad.

But in time, memories will heal the hurt of hearts
and my presence will be felt by all with an inner peace.
Remember me when the sun is bright and laughter fills the air
and a moonlit night and whispers of wind
will tell you that I am there.

Don't look down on my family
or fill their hearts with blame.
For my leaving them without good-byes,
they will never be the same.

If I could go back in time, I say a last good-bye,
I'd tell them to look to tomorrow
and for me..... Do not cry......


Latest Condolences
dayo WHEN TOMORROW START WITHOUT ME March 16, 2010
When Tomorrow Starts Without Me
When tomorrow starts without me, and I am not here to see,
If the sun should rise and find your eyes all filled with tears for me,
I know how much you love me as much as I love you,
And each time you think of me I know you'll miss me too.
But when tomorrow starts without me please try to understand,
That Jesus came and called my name and took me by the hand.
He said my place is ready in heaven far above,
And that I have to leave behind all those I dearly love.
But as I turned to walk away a tear fell from my eye,
For all my life I'd always thought it wasn't my time to die.
I had so much to live for and so much yet to do,
It seems almost impossible that I was leaving you.
I thought of all the yesterdays the good ones and the bad,
I thought of all the love we shared and all the fun we had.
If I could have stayed for just a little while,
I'd say goodbye and kiss you and maybe see you smile.
But then I fully realise that this could never be,
For emptiness and memories would take the place of me.
And when I thought of worldly things that I'd miss come tomorrow,
I thought of you and when I did my heart was filled with sorrow.
But when I walked through Heaven's gate and felt so much at home,
As God looked down and smiled at me from his great golden throne.
He said "This is eternity, And all I've promised you,
Today your life on earth is past, but here it starts anew."
"I promise no tomorrow but today will always last,
And since each day's the same here there's no longing for the past."
So when tomorrow starts without me don't think we're far apart,
For every time you think of me I'm right here in your heart.
mark conica i am sorry December 21, 2009
 
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